The problem with budgeting for my real needs

I've using YNAB for a little over a year now. When I reached the year mark I reviewed all my spending categories to get a sense of how much I had really spent in them over the year and adjusted them accordingly. But I'm finding that there's a twist. In categories where I increased my budget based on my actual spending over the past year I'm actually spending MORE now than what I budgeted for. Let me illustrate with a somewhat fictionalized example.

I have a category called Cultural and Religious, which is a catch all for books I buy, religious services I pay to attend, cultural events, etc. When I first started using YNAB I wasn't sure how much disposable income I had to spend in this category, so I budgeted $10/month for it, but really tried to just spend as little as possible. However, a few times a year there were more expensive items driving up the expenses in this category. For example, I paid $50 to go to a religious service at one point.

After I did my 12 month YNAB reckoning I saw that I had actually spent $20/month on this category, so I adjusted the category to $20/month -- my real expenses. Remember, this $20/month is a result of trying to not spend much in this category and then having a few larger expenses.

BUT, what I'm discovering now is that I see a book I want to buy. Last year I would hem and haw and maybe buy it or maybe think it was too expensive for and put off the expense. NOW  look at the $20/month I have budgeted for this category and I think cool! I've got $20 to spend here. I can afford this $15 book.

What this actually means is that, when I figure in my more expensive categories over the year, my real expenses will wind up being more than $20/month, but it's hard to keep this in mind and hard to figure out how much I should really be trying to spend (or not to spend) in any given month.

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  • Maybe you are trying to cover too many expenses in one category.

    I would be inclined to break out the big, expensive events into their own category, and split the budgeted amount accordingly. Then when you look at the remaining amount, you will be better able to decide if the purchase is affordable.

    I've had this issue before where my annual Audible subscription was coming out of the same category as my regular book spending. Most of the year it looked well funded, until the annual expense landed.

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    • wench Yes, this is a good idea for that particular category, but I'm having the same kind of problem in many of my categories. Another example: I have a Pet Food and Supplies category for buying dog food, dog treats and some supplements. It overlaps a little bit with the Veterinary category, but it's not the same thing. I was budgeting something like $30 / month for it through last year. After examining my expenses for the year I raised it to something like $40/ month.

      Last year I would look at my budget and think, I need to be sure I can afford dog food, but I'm not sure I can afford to buy treats this month. But the last two  months, I've been looking at the category and thinking, oh, I have money remaining -- I can get the treats. What I realize I forgot was that every six months I have to buy fairly expensive anti-flea treatment (about $100). Now that expense is coming up and I don't have enough money saved in that category.

      So, part of the problem is that I'm having trouble tracking how that bigger number came to be and what bigger expenses are coming up.  At the same time, I see the bigger number budgeted for the category  ($40 in this example) and the psychological effect is that I can spend it!

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      Green Nomad Again, I would split that category. If you have the data for the last year, you should be able to look back and see what recurring or large expenses were in there that pushed the monthly average up.

      Then give them their own category to ring-fence the money.

      Anywhere these multi-function categories are hiding information from you, split them.

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  • In addition to the above post you can use the technique that creates some room by collecting some money in that budget line over 3 months; so now you have 60 sitting in there and it is growing at 20 a month. then as you check on your phone prior to your purchase you then take pause and decide if that money is to be spent on a book or if you need to save it for an upcoming event. If there is an event then wait one month then re-look at the budget. In the language my wife and I use its a sinking fund. We can create an allowance we give each other permission to spend with out checking in with the each other. The longer we go without a purchase the bigger the fund becomes. 

    I hope you find something that works for you. Otherwise you will have to reduce a line item somewhere to make room for the purchase you are looking at. 

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  • You are now gaining a better idea of what is really important to you. You habitually took money from other categories for books. Clearly, books were more important to you than those other things. Otherwise, you would have skipped the purchase, right?

    Really, all this just means your initial guesses were off slightly, but that's to be expected. Don't forget priorities change over time as well. I consider 2-3 months to be a good timeframe to evaluate whether budget entries are appropriate moving forward. 

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  • Green Nomad said:
    it's hard to keep this in mind and hard to figure out how much I should really be trying to spend (or not to spend) in any given month.

    That's why you change the nominal budget entries, so what you see is what you get. Increase something and decrease others to remain within your income constraints. You should not be doing mental math for the "real" amount you can spend.

    However, there will always be unpredictable events that may motivate additional spending, which is why you should reallocate. Money SHOULD flow from less important things to facilitate more important things. Whether that shift in funding should persist in future months is a different, but still important, consideration.

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    • dakinemaui Please take a look at response to Wench (which is the first response in this thread) for another example. To quote from the end of that response of mine:

      So, part of the problem is that I'm having trouble tracking how that bigger number came to be and what bigger expenses are coming up.  At the same time, I see the bigger number budgeted for the category  ($40 in this example) and the psychological effect is that I can spend it!

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      Green Nomad If a category contains multiple types of spending and you cannot differentiate and it affects your ability to correctly make spending decisions, then you should split it up into its components so that one type of spending does not affect the other.

      I'm of the opinion that one should never mix discretionary spending with other types of spending in a category.

      The purpose of a True Expense is to save money regularly for an upcoming known expense. The purpose of sinking funds/savings goals is to be able to cover large infrequent expenses that may or may not have a fixed timetable. Discretionary spending is money you can spend at any time.

      Generally it's a good idea to have recurring/True Expenses, sinking funds/savings goals and discretionary expenses in separate categories, otherwise there is a risk that you will spend on discretionary things using money that really needs to be funding True Expenses or sinking funds, Or spending your sinking funds will prevent you from having the money for a True Expense.

      It's about awareness and control.

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  • Green Nomad said:
    What I realize I forgot was that every six months I have to buy fairly expensive anti-flea treatment

    Differing timelines in the same category is a source of difficulty. The reality is the flea treatment has a different priority in your mind. This is solved with another category.

    A similar thing happens for an annual gym membership combined with a monthly allotment towards classes.

    In other words, structure your plan so you don't have to do mental math. Make it explicit.

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  • nolesrule said:
    It's about awareness and control.

     

    dakinemaui said:
    Make it explicit.

     These two statements say it all.  

    I HAVE to have separate categories for food and non-food consumables, why? Because if I don't, the money I have to spend is not explicit and I am not aware of what I am doing and loose control of the combined category. Therefore, if I want to have clean dishes or anything else in my home, I must separate these categories. 

    I also keep the monthly audible away from the extra audible and books categories as the latter two are only extras that the budget allows, whereas the monthly audible is a subscription that I don't pick and choose when to spend on. 

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  • Hi all. Thanks for a useful thread and Green Nomad for raising the question. 

    The key takeouts for me are to split out categories which contain infrequent higher priority higher expense items and frequent lower value discretionary items  

    This highlights a solution to an issue I’ve been having with budgeting books.  I’ve been successfully reducing spending in this ‘discretionary’ area by using the library (yay ebooks and the people who choose the books at my local libraries), reading my own unread books and borrowing books from friends.  However I’ve had to WAM it twice to cover special purchases of bookclub books weren’t available as a cheaper electronic book and where a specific edition was required, ie I couldn’t find a cheap second hand copy.  The last option is also limited as postage to and within Australia is much slower than usual with less overseas flights  

    I’d actually been merging my book spend into fun money as it had got so low and lockdown had reduced dining out, drinks with friends, theatre etc .  But couldn’t cover these ‘unusual’ purchases.  And as they were important to me I WAMed the money from future true expenses  

    So it looks like I now need a small ‘Special book purchases’.  Good insight.  Thanks YNABers  

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  • The issue is not whether you are spending more but whether you can afford to spend more.  Your budget should allow you to both know how much you have to spend and then tell you what you have spent it on.  Increasing the amount you spend on doing one activity is not an issue unless it impacts on you budget as a whole ie has it reduced your age of money.  It is perfectly acceptable to readjust your budget to cover things you want to do but only if you can afford it.

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  • Spring Green Piccolo said:
    It is perfectly acceptable to readjust your budget to cover things you want to do but only if you can afford it.

    I'd say that by definition, you can afford it if you are comfortable with the consequences of that reallocation.

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  • I have two budget category groups (Gotta Buy It & The Finer Things) and I split these types of expenses into one budget category per group. So I have:

    • Household Basics vs. Household Niceties
    • Groceries vs. Dining Out
    • Audible Subscription vs. Kindle Purchases
    • Dog Essentials vs. Dog Extras
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  • I'll agree with others here - when it comes to situations like these where you have frequent smaller purchases vs infrequent larger purchases it's best to split them out. I now have 2 categories in my business budget - one is for monthly expenses (my monthly web hosting package, and email provider go in here), and annual expenses (my web domains, my annual website plan, and my annual membership fees for various things I use go in here - and I know how much monthly needs to be set aside to cover all these things). It was challenging until I did this to keep it organized because every so many months I would get hit with the bigger fee, and be unprepared for it. Now that you've got a year's worth of history, you can go back and do a little math to figure it out. This is where tagging purchases is helpful, and searching for purchases by where you purchased it from/through helps. So it won't take much digging to sort out these answers.

    Once I created the category for the annual fees, I made a list in the notes (down in the bottom right hand corner of the side bar if you select the specific category) of what fees happen in which months, and how much they cost, so that I have a reference to be prepared for and can keep an eye on what is upcoming.

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