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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) @Navy Blue Pegasus Yes exactly, that resentment/bitterness is just what I'm worried about. I don't want HER to feel it, but I also don't want ME to feel it - neither option is good for our son.…
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) @Powder Blue Pony Thank you so much. I can't wait to get back to my regular undramatic YNAB-ing! ❤️
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) @Vibrant Wow.....dang. Thank you for this. Hard to imagine feeling free from worrying about how she is perceiving me, but this makes great sense. There are such amazingly smart and kind and highly…
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) @Ivory Storm This statement is so moving to me. Thank you for these powerful insights and this beautiful positive framing. Are you a guru of some kind? 😄
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) @Superbone Thank you. This is the challenge is that based on how she has been speaking to me (via email) I feel pressured, bullied and manipulated. But maybe that's not happening at all and I just…
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) @The Artist Formerly Known As This is super helpful, thank you. I can't actually see the situation clearly right now and your perspective is helpful. Note re timing - we have been discussing the…
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) @Navy Blue Pegasus No particular reason to stay in the house except continuity for our two-year-old and my ex likes the house. I like the way you have framed the appraisal issue.
- labrucebee
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) @Ivory Storm This is a really helpful framework. Thank you. She wrote yesterday that she has to refinance at a lower interest rate to lower the monthly payments because she can't stay indefinitely…
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) Just getting to read these. I’m so grateful for all your thoughts and support. Thank you so very much. 😢I will reply more fully tomorrow.
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Re: Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal) Good question - she did mention tonight for the first time that I should be concerned about keeping our son in the house, which I had no idea was an issue. So I asked her. Haven't heard back.…
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Need input on how to approach divorce settlement (emotional/financial advice, not legal)
I need advice that is a hybrid of financial/emotional/ethical. TL:DR -- if you are the one who left a marriage, and you paid less than half of household expenses during the relationship because you…
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